The Divorce Stigma

So often things go wrong between couples in a relationship… couples who seem to be crazily in love with each other… who feel that they wanna get married and spend the rest of their lives together… and yet things just don’t work out and they part ways. We are never hesitant to fall for someone who has been in a bad relationship…
Then why do we look at someone who has had a divorce so differently. Isn’t marriage just about legalizing a relationship… can’t things just go wrong just like they do when two people are courting each other? I’ve asked myself these questions a million times today and though I can’t find the answers I know the whole equation changes with a divorce in the picture… I don’t think I have the strength to fight that so called stigma